The Good Things in Life...


Recently I've been noticing how depressed people around me seem to be...either complaining about things or simply pure Grinches...This is what I've decided and have be living for some time now.....There is absolutly no reason to ALLOW yourself to be miserable...YOU make your own happiness....Bad things happen to good people ALL the time...thats life....you have two options either waste your time complaining about things, continue being unappreciative about all the good in your life or open your eyes to all the good around you and CHOOSE to learn from the bad and MOVE on....CHOOSE to smile, CHOOSE to let go fo anger, CHOOSE to let go of things that hold you back and down....these things are in your power..we can't control what happens around us sometimes but we can control our emotions and what we take away from events, struggles.....its in our hand..no one else...Your life is the way it is because you want it that way....You want happiness around you then CHOOSE to be happy and your life will be filled with joy....


So here is a list of just some of the good things in life.....

*A fresh brand new snowfall
*A childs laugh
*A hot fluffy towel fresh out of the dyer
*Chocolate
* A sunset
*Twinkle Twinkle Little Star
*A good glass of wine
*A good roller coaster
*Cotton candy
*Your favorite song on the radio
*A good movie
*A massage
*Holding a childs hand
*Giving
*Kisses
*Laughing so hard your face and tummy hurt
*Finding money in the laundry
*Playdough
*Eating the cream in an Oreo
*The beach
*Falling in Love
*Laughing with friends
*Hottubs
*A baseball game with a cold beer & a good hot dog

SO SO many more things......So stop just stop and enjoy the good...

My best friend....MUAH!!


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You're my Honeybunch, Sugarplum
Pumpy-umpy-umpkin, You're my Sweetie Pie
You're my Cuppycake, Gumdrop
Snoogums-Boogums, You're the Apple of my Eye
And I love you so and I want you to know
That I'll always be right here
And I love to sing sweet songs to you
Because you are so dear

I love you with all my heart...You are my bestest bestest friend....I have your back always and 4ever no matter what....

Many things inspire me...from my daugthers to friends..from colors to clouds...from Mark Velasquez {one of my very favorite photographers} to strangers walking down the mall...but one of the people that most inspired me these last months was my baby brother...I know he's not much of a baby now but I still see that 3 year old lil boy with a bowl haircut...

That's Me...


p>Phenomenal Woman
Maya Angelo

Pretty women wonder where my secret lies.
I'm not cute or built to suit
a fashion model's size
But when I start to tell them,
they think I'm telling lies.
I say, It's in the reach of my arms,
The span of my hips,
The stride of my step,
The curl of my lips.
I'm a woman
Phenomenally.
Phenomenal woman,
That's me.
I walk into a room
Just as cool as you please,
And to a man,
The fellows stand or
Fall down on their knees.
Then they swarm around me,
hive of honey bees.
I say, It's the fire in my eyes,
And the flash of my teeth,
The swing of my waist,
And the joy in my feet.
I'm a woman
Phenomenally.
Phenomenal woman,
That's me.

Men themselves have wondered
What they see in me.
They try so much
But they can't touch
My inner mystery.
When I try to show them,
They say they still can't see.
I say, It's in the arch of my back,
The sun of my smile,
The ride of my breasts,
The grace of my style.
I'm a woman
Phenomenally.
Phenomenal woman,
That's me.

Now you understand
Just why my head's not bowed.
I don't shout or jump about
Or have to talk real loud.
When you see me passing,
It ought to make you proud.
I say, It's in the click of my heels,
The bend of my hair,
the palm of my hand,
The need for my care.
'Cause I'm a woman
Phenomenally.
Phenomenal woman,

That's me

Self-Portrait


Today I felt lovely...